<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417099707358649907</id><updated>2011-12-29T12:21:16.883-08:00</updated><category term='by Miniver Favoured Bwalya-Oliver (Ntinda Minnie)'/><title type='text'>Random Thoughts</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://whatagalwants.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/5417099707358649907/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://whatagalwants.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Smile Sunshine!</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00106066569609672829</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='21' height='32' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jRmuQ0Mt0J4/TvtXwA5Df3I/AAAAAAAAACc/D0LINen0JIA/s220/IMG_4237.JPG'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>2</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5417099707358649907.post-7181063554012701371</id><published>2011-12-29T11:47:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2011-12-29T11:48:27.572-08:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='by Miniver Favoured Bwalya-Oliver (Ntinda Minnie)'/><title type='text'>What I have learnt today!!!!!!!!!!!  THE TONGUE!</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="mtl fbDocument"&gt;&lt;b&gt;The doctor often says to us, "Let  me see your tongue." He can tell a a lot about our health by looking at  it. In the same way, much can be told about the health of our thoughts  by our tongue because the tongue speaks the thoughts of the heart  (Matthew 12:34). What our tongue says lets people know what we really  are.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;In the Bible, God describes the tongue in different ways:  I’ve found 5 so far that are very good, and loads that are very  destructive.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;PS. The Words used are different depending on which bible version you have, most of the ones below pertain to the KJV.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;A flattering tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Psalm 5:9) – We covered this already in the post&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;&amp;nbsp;A Proud tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Psalm 12:3; 73:9)&amp;nbsp;We covered this too, under boasting&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;A lying tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Psalm 109:2; Prov. 6:17)&amp;nbsp;We Covered this too, just a recap&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;A deceitful tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Psalm 120:2, Psalm 52:4, Psalm 101:7)&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;A perverted tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Prov. 10:31; 17:20)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;(GOOD) - A healing tongue/building tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Prov. 12:18, Prov 15:4, Eph 4;29, Acts 11:19-26)&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;(GOOD) A Witnessing tongue&lt;/b&gt; is addicted to witnessing (Mark 16:15, Acts 1:8, Revelation 12:10 Their great Power in speaking ur testimony)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;A destructive tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Prov. 17:4 – Be careful what  you Listen to as well guys, peep Proverbs 14:15&amp;nbsp;“A simple man believes  anything, but a prudent man gives thought to his steps”.)&amp;nbsp;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;A mischievous/wicked/Vain tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Psalm 10:7, Rom 3:14)&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;10.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(GOOD) A soft/gentle/True tongue&lt;/b&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Prov. 25:15, Prov 12:19)&lt;br /&gt;11&lt;b&gt;. (GOOD) Wise Tongue&lt;/b&gt; (Psalm 31:26;37:30, Prov 10:13)&lt;br /&gt;12.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A complaining tongue&lt;/b&gt; (In the wilderness, the  children of Israel experienced some ofthe greatest manifestations of  God. Yet, they grumbled and complained. In fact, Paul says in 1  Corinthians 10:10 that the reason some of the Israelites died was  because of their constant murmuring and complaining.) Philippians 2:13 -  “Do all things without complaining and disputing.” Also read Exodus  15:22 – 17:7 (Review story of Israelites murmuring).&lt;br /&gt;13.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;(GOOD) A Praising tongue&lt;/b&gt; (Psalms 34:1, Psalm 66:17, Psalm 149:6, Psalm 35:28&amp;nbsp;)&lt;br /&gt;14.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;An Overused Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some people sin by simply overusing their tongue. Ecclesiastes 5:3  says that "a fool's voice is known by multitude of words." People think  they appear smart by much talking, but the Bible states just the  opposite. Ecclesiastes 5:2 says, "Be not rash with thy mouth, and let  not thine heart be hasty to utter any thing before God: for God is in  heaven, and thou upon earth: therefore let thy words be few." God  doesn't like a blabber mouth. You say, "Well, that's just the way I am!"  Then REPENT! Confess your sin and repent. Stop justifying your  wickedness and ask God to help you repent.&lt;br /&gt;15.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A Swift (Hasty)Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Some people are guilty of speaking too swiftly when they really need  to wait before saying anything. God's word says the following in  Proverbs 18:13: "He that answereth a matter before he heareth it, it is  folly and shame unto him." How many times have you had to "eat" your  words because you spoke too swiftly? James 1:19 warns us to be swift to  HEAR and SLOW to speak. Why do you suppose God gave us two ears but only  one mouth?&lt;br /&gt;16.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A Backbiting Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Proverbs 25:23 and Romans 1:30 make mention of a backbiting tongue. A  backbiter is someone who uses their tongue against you when you aren't  present, yet they will not face you with their charges when you are  present. This is a cowardly backbiter who would rather stir up problems  than solve problems.&lt;br /&gt;A backbiter would much rather talk ABOUT the preacher than talk TO  the preacher. A backbiter would much rather talk ABOUT some weak  Christian in the church than offer some words of encouragement TO them. A  backbiter is of no use to anyone, and no one has ever been strengthened  or edified through backbiting. Beware of the backbiters, especially the  ones who sow discord among brethren (Pro. 6:19)!&lt;br /&gt;17.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A Talebearing Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Proverbs 18:8 says, "The words of a talebearer are as wounds, and  they go down into the innermost parts of the belly." Leviticus 19:16  says, "Thou shalt not go up and down as a talebearer among thy people. .  ." Every Christian has the duty to deny his own desires and seek to  edify other Christians (Rom. 14:19; Philip. 2:3). Talebearing runs  wholly contrary to Christian edification. Talebearing (carrying and  telling tales) spreads all sorts of hurtful information around, and  Satan uses such information to hinder and tear down God's work. A victim  of talebearing, according to Proverbs, is a "wounded" person. God  forbid that a Christian should wound another Christian, but it does  happen all the time! Some Christians live as though they think God has  "called" them to bear tales on other Christians.&lt;br /&gt;18.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A Cursing Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Romans 3:13-14 says, "Their throat is an open sepulchre; with their  tongues they have used deceit; the poison of asps is under their lips:  Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness." &amp;nbsp;"As he loved cursing,  so let it come unto him: as he delighted not in blessing, so let it be  far from him. As he clothed himself with cursing like as with his  garment, so let it come into his bowels like water, and like oil into  his bones."(Psalm 109:17-18) .&lt;br /&gt;19.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A &amp;nbsp;Piercing Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;. Another sinful tongue is the piercing tongue. A sharp tongue is the  only edged tool that grows keener with constant use. Proverbs 12:18  speaks of this tongue by saying, "There is that speaketh like the  piercings of a sword: but the tongue of the wise is health." Some people  have a sharp piercing tongue which Satan uses to offend and insult  others. The Bible commands Christians to have their speech dominated by  GRACE (Col. 4:6), yet most churches have a few people who use their  tongue like a sword to pierce their brethren in Christ.&lt;br /&gt;Titus 2:8 commands us to use sound speech which cannot be condemned.  Friend, do you use graceful speech which cannot be evil spoken of, or do  you possess a piercing tongue? Every Christian's prayer should be,  "Lord, make my words gracious and tender, for tomorrow I may have to eat  them."&lt;br /&gt;20.&amp;nbsp; &lt;b&gt;A Silent Tongue&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A silent tongue is also a sinful tongue because we have been  commanded to speak up and witness for the Lord Jesus Christ. In Acts  1:8, Jesus said, "But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost  is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem,  and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the  earth." We, as Christians, have an obligation to tell others about the  saving grace of Jesus. To be silent about Christ is to sin against  Christ. Jesus said, "Whosoever therefore shall be ashamed of me and of  my words in this adulterous and sinful generation; of him also shall the  Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the glory of his Father with  the holy angels." (Mark 8:38) Pray for opportunities to speak up for  your Saviour. Don't be found guilty of having a silent tongue. The  Silent Tongue is also sinful, when you keep silent when you the truth is  what is needed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are responsible for the words that we speak.&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;"And I say to  you, that every careless word that men shall speak, they shall render  account for it in the day of judgment. For by your words you shall be  justified, and by your words you shall be condemned."&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Matt.  12:36-37)&amp;nbsp;Our own words snare us.&amp;nbsp;(Prov. 6:2)&amp;nbsp;We are ensnared by vows  and promises spoken, but not kept. By reckless criticisms and rash  judgments.&amp;nbsp;&lt;i&gt;"How can you, being evil, speak what is good? For the  mouth speaks out of that which fills the heart. The good man out of his  good treasure brings forth what is good; and the evil man out of his  evil treasure brings forth what is evil."&lt;/i&gt;&amp;nbsp;(Matt. 12:34-35)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Using the acronym &lt;b&gt;THINK&lt;/b&gt;, try to ask these 5 questions before you speak.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Is it True? Remember this rule about gossip: “The more interesting it is, the more likely it is to be false.”&lt;br /&gt;Is it Helpful? Will your words help bring about a solution to a problem?&lt;br /&gt;Is it Inspiring? Will your words build up someone?&lt;br /&gt;Is it Necessary? Do we have to say anything at all?&lt;br /&gt;Is it Kind? 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